Years ago there were some negative stereotypes associated with raising an only child. Fortunately, those stereotypes have been challenged and more current research has proven them to be inaccurate. Raising children in general, presents both challenges and rewards, but there are some unique issues to consider when raising an only child.
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5 Tips to Raising an Emotionally Healthy Only Child
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Quit Your Nagging!
Posted by SouthlakeMoms
It’s natural to nag your kids when you get frustrated. However, nagging can cause damage to a child’s self-esteem, as it seems to imply our child can’t do the right thing without constant badgering. We as parents become the “bad guys,” allowing our children to focus on our frustration and loss of control rather than their own choices. So what’s a parent to do to get their kids to clean their room? Cook Children’s gives us excellent alternatives to nagging. -
3 Secrets to Turn Bah Humbug
into the Warm FuzziesPosted by Victorya Rogers
I do love the holiday music, decorations, musicals, TV specials, weather, parties, and all the warm fuzzies that go with it. But I also know it is also a hectic time of year filled with pressure, unreasonable expectations, family strife and tormented memories. If you find yourself in the midst of unpleasant circumstances this season, you can still have a pleasant, memorable holiday in 2011. -
Ask For What You Want
Posted by Tamra White, M.A., LPC
Why do we not ask outright for what we want? I think it is due to embarrassment of being different, daring, or odd. Ask for what you want. Even if it’s just popcorn at the movies. What’s the worse case scenario? No??? If you don’t ask, then “no” is your answer anyway… -
The Heat Is On
Posted by Victorya RogersThe long hot summer….that’s what 2011 will be remembered for, hopefully by that it will be for more than just these record breaking 100+ degree days. Wouldn’t it be nice if 2011 was remembered by you and your husband as your long hot passionate summer? Well, Moms, we’ve got one month left to make [...]
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Five Easy Steps to Ease Back Into School
Posted by Jessica Begley
What’s it like for children to go back to school each year?Well, imagine the mix of emotions adults experience when going through a job change.
Beginning another school year is very similar to starting a new position or transferring to a new company. There’s a new boss or teacher, different expectations, and a more difficult workload…
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Does Birth Order Really Matter When Parenting?
Posted by Jessica BegleyThe topic of birth order seems to generate more questions than just about any other issue in families with more than one child. Although there is great interest in the way birth order impacts our children. It continues to be a confusing area for many parents. It creates such questions as… “Why are my children [...]
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Not Her Type
Posted by Sarah CloseWith summer vacation in full swing, and a vacation in my family’s near future, I decided to set my 9 year old up with her own blog. Blogs have a lot to offer that private diaries can’t provide, and the interactive potential can be healthy for kids if properly supervised. Writing about their experiences online, [...]
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Victorya Rogers
Southlake Mom Victorya Michaels Rogers is a Life & Love Coach, equipping women to create and keep healthy relationships. Rogers’ authored four books, including Finding a Man Worth Keeping and The Automatic 2nd Date. Her latest release is the DVD “Straight Talk About Sex for Christian Couples” co-written with Sex Therapist Debby Wade. Victorya has been seen and heard on national TV, Radio, and print—from MTV to Focus on the Family, Cosmopolitan to Woman’s World. This former Hollywood agent is also an active REALTOR® at Coldwell Banker Residential. She’s part of First Friday Women and lives in Southlake with her husband, Will, and their two children. Learn more about her Coaching services at www.Victorya.com. -
Sarah Close
Sarah Close lives in Southlake with her husband, two daughters, one son, two dogs, one cat, and an empty (and much cleaner) fish tank. Sarah is a graduate of Stanford University with over fourteen years’ experience in marketing writing and editing, corporate journalism, and creative strategizing for high-tech companies. Last year, she co-founded Full Cycle Creative, a new marketing communications business, which keeps her busy writing and designing Web sites—but her number one priority is always her family. Elusive free moments are spent Facebooking (yes, it’s a verb now), volunteering on a committee somewhere, or helping her husband launch a company centered on his primary passion: beer. Catch up with Sarah and her family at www.reallyclose.com. Or visit her company at www.fullcyclecreative.com. -
Samantha Conner
In my “past life” I earned a degree in Education at TCU and taught elementary school. But these days, I am working as a super stay-at-home-mom with a serious craft addiction. During naptime, I am an avid blogger, runner, and nester. My blog is the place where I chronicle my journey in homemaking and sell my fabulous handmade bows, tutus, and hair accessories. I have a loving husband and two young daughters. Their enthusiasm and support is what drives my creativity in home decor, unique crafts, party planning, holiday fun, and all things girly. I am dedicated to creating a warm, loving home for my family. And to me, that means a lot of 'crafty how-to’ projects along the way. I believe that life can be more fabulous with the use of polka dots, tulle, ribbon and rhinestones! I hope you enjoy sharing in our adventures and that I can inspire you to 'get crafty' in your own home. Follow my crafting journey at craftytexasgirls.blogspot.com -
Rhonda Sargent Chambers
Rhonda, a former model and owner of RSC Show Productions, considers herself a “naturalized Texan”. After moving to Texas from San Francisco, she began her modeling career at a young age walking runways around the world from Japan to Mexico. She transitioned from full-time modeling to fashion show production with the creation of RSC Show Productions. As an instructor and speaker in the modeling community for over 30 years, she is a respected figure who consults with modeling agencies to develop criteria and guidelines for professional models to follow. Rhonda and her husband Kit have been together more than 20 years. The busy mom’s schedule is somewhat flexible since she owns her own business, but it’s the couple’s two boys, Callahan, 12, and Ford, 10, who now shape Rhonda’s daily routine. She is active in the community both personally and professionally giving her time to organizations such as Children’s Cancer Fund, Mane Gait Therapeutic Center, Child Abuse Prevention Center, Big Thought and The Elisa Project. She is passionate about fashion, and her forte will offer wonderful shopping and wardrobing tips for busy moms on the go! www.rscshow.com -
Missy Allaire
Missy is a stay at home mom who resides with her family in Keller. In her spare time, she enjoys crafting, sewing, decorating and scrapbooking. After numerous suggestions from her friends and family she decided to pursue her passion and created a blog called lookiewhatidid.blogspot.com. The blog is six months old and receives over 20,000 hits each month. Originally from Arkansas, she has made Texas her home for the last 14 years. -
Maxi Erdmann
I am Maxi Erdmann, and I reside in Keller, TX with my four sweet babies and my husband, Nathan. A University of Oklahoma grad, I love all things SOONER! I love food, but I don’t cook, I love music, but I don’t sing, (except in the shower), and I have a ridiculously expensive obsession with make-up. I have been writing since I could form letters and my mother put a pencil in my hand. Prior to having my third and fourth baby, I was a teacher at Southlake Christian Preschool. Before moving to Texas, I lived in Oklahoma where I spent my days as a full-time mom of twins and part-time make-up artist. I have also lived in Nashville, TN where I worked for Gaylord Entertainment and Springhouse Golf Course. My other interests include all things sports related and a new endeavor as an aspiring (learning!) photographer. It seems, along with my pencil, I have always had a camera around my neck. My days are filled with loud kids, tons of laundry and enough extra-curricular activities to keep six people busy. I’m up for the challenge, and I love every minute of it... -
Jordin LePori
Jordin is a lifelong lover of fashion. She believes there is no shame in hunting down a good bargain. When you feel good about what you’re wearing it can change your attitude and that leads to a happy mommy. When Jordin is not flipping through magazines, she enjoys spending time with her husband and little boy, lunch dates with friends, cook outs with family and her part-time job as a hairstylist. Her blog I Love That! is her new creative outlet for her other loves like: beauty products, hair care, decorating and of course fashion. http://ilovethatblog.com/ -
Jill Webb
Jill was born and raised in Fort Worth. After graduating from the University of Oklahoma, Jill met her husband Bill when they both worked shifts in a charity haunted house. She was in a coffin and he had a chainsaw - romance was in the air! After living on 10 acres in the Texas Hill Country they moved with their three sons to a cul-de-sac in Southlake. Jill is a free-lance graphic artist and the art director for SouthlakeMoms.com. Her likes include antiques, watching HGTV, reading, interior design and Mexican food. Dislikes are people who don't attempt to recycle, cold weather, folding laundry and cooking dinner for kids who'd rather eat chicken nuggets. -
Cristi Houtman
Cristi lives in Southlake with her husband, two daughters and one son. She is a graduate of The University of Oklahoma and is founder and co-owner of SouthalkeMoms.com. Before moving to the area she owned a successful interior design business in Tulsa, Oklahoma. More than anything, she enjoys spending quality time with her husband and 3 kids. Her other enjoyments include interior design, traveling, attending her kids activities/events, and taking care of her other baby, SouthlakeMoms.com. -
Cindy Carbone
Cindy Carbone is a student at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, training to become a certified “Holistic Health and Nutrition Coach.” Her mission in life is to H.E.A.L. America, by empowering people to adopt a lifestyle of Healthy Eating And Living! She believes education and knowledge are key factors to changing MINDS, which will naturally result in changed lives! Check out her website at www.educateyourwaytohealth.com. There you can connect to her blog, Facebook page, and her tweets! When she is not following her passion for making the world a healthier and happier place, she enjoys running, cooking, and spending time with her family and friends! -
Chrystal Van Doren
I have a fondness for food. Food is a simple pleasure that brings people together and makes us smile. Whether it’s a cheeseburger or a gourmet pork shoulder that braised all day in the dutch oven, it appeals to everyone’s appetite. I enjoy cooking for my family, friends and co-workers. I created my blog, Food Fondness, so that I could share my love of cooking and baking with others through stories, pictures and recipes. http://foodfondness.blogspot.com -
Brooke Hortenstine
Brooke Hortenstine is a Dallas-based editor, writer and charitable volunteer. As editor-at-large of PaperCity magazine, Brooke chronicles the evolving Dallas social scene and writes about all things luxurious — fashion, food, beauty, and interior design, to name a few. She has appeared as a style authority in television segments, and has been published in periodicals such as In Style and Four Seasons Magazine. Contemporary art, dining, travel, music, modern furnishings, and southern customs — think iced tea, old monograms and SEC football — top her lists of likes, as well as giving back to her community. She sits on the Board of Directors of the Dallas Contemporary artspace and the President’s Advisory Council to the AT&T Performing Arts Center, and serves as a member of Cattle Baron’s Ball benefiting the American Cancer Society. Her family includes her husband Blake Hortenstine, a ranch real estate broker, and their two-year-old son, Rollins Hortenstine.